Mingling with locals definitely brings a foreign destination to life, but there's one thing no local has: your perspective. They will never know that you love cobblestones unless you tell them.
When I was in high school, our family hosted 2 girls from Yokohama, Japan. I showed them Edmonton's main sights, and we compared daily life in Canada and in Japan. One weekend, we took them to the Rocky Mountains. Breathtakingly spectacular, we promised. But unfortunately I knew the five-hour drive all too well: endless horizon-to-horizon wheat fields punctuated by a few grain elevators and random smatterings of cows and horses. It was mind-bogglingly boring.
But the minute we left the city limits, my Japanese friends were glued to their passenger windows. For five hours, they photographed wheat fields, grain elevators, trees, the sky, the clouds and who knows what on earth else. They exclaimed again and again, "the sky! The sky is so big!". I'd never noticed. But when I visited them in Japan, I understood: the sky over Tokyo definitely seemed smaller.
The main tourist attractions are worth seeing, and the locals can add depth to your experience. But share your perspective with them, too. And if your most memorable moments after a day in Rome include the street signs and door knockers, that's okay. Share it with a local and help them see their own city in a different light.
Photo of poetry in the winter sky in Turin by Madeline
This post has been entered into the Grantourismo HomeAway Holiday-Rentals travel blogging competition



Thanks for your post. SOmetimes it takes an outsider for us to realize how much we take the things we have for granted.
Posted by: Stacey Sheldon | October 25, 2010 at 02:07 PM
it's so true - what we find commonplace, others find extraordinary! good luck
Posted by: wandering educators | October 25, 2010 at 04:57 PM
thanks for your comments Stacey and wandering educators!
Posted by: Madeline | October 26, 2010 at 08:06 AM
That is so true. I always look for the non-obvious - like the garbage boats in Venice. Not something that you see in the tourist brochures! Italy is so full of such things that just become part of the background for someone living there. Now I have to think about what someone from a similarly sized city might find fascinating about where I live.
Joe
Posted by: Joe Nance | October 26, 2010 at 10:42 AM
Totally agree re the garbage boats in Venice! It was hard to pick a photo for this post (as one of the Canadian prairie sky isn't really ideal for this blog), and it was hard to decide between one of a boatyard in Venice, green garbage cans in Milan, or the Turin poetry that I chose...
Posted by: Madeline | October 26, 2010 at 11:10 AM
A lovely post, thanks for entering our competition. Good luck!
Posted by: Anca Popa | October 27, 2010 at 05:23 AM
What a great point! Couldn't agree more!
Thank you so much for entering our competition. Best of luck!
Posted by: lara dunston | October 28, 2010 at 11:23 AM
So awesome to exchange viewpoints between locals and visitors. Good luck in the contest!
Posted by: Nicole | October 28, 2010 at 09:11 PM
Very nice post, Madeline! And beautiful shot, Turin is definitely underestimated.
Posted by: Giulia | November 04, 2010 at 01:57 AM
thanks again for the nice comments, everyone! Giulia I agree Turin is a relatively undiscovered gem... shhhh ;)
Posted by: Madeline | November 04, 2010 at 07:56 AM